Does My Crush Love Me Back?

An Assessment of Flirting and Interest from RealLoveTips.com

This quiz analyzes your crush’s body language, communication patterns, and level of initiative to help you determine if their feelings match yours.

1. When you are in the same room, how often do you catch your crush looking at you?

Often, and they usually smile or hold my gaze. Sometimes, but they quickly look away. Rarely, they seem focused on everything else. Never, or only when necessary.

2. How does their body language shift when you approach them or join their group?

They turn their body toward me and often fidget or adjust their clothing. They acknowledge me, but their body position remains neutral. They turn away or seem to get quiet/nervous. There is no noticeable change in their behavior.

3. When you speak, how focused is your crush on what you are saying?

They put away distractions (phone) and make strong eye contact. They listen, but sometimes glance at their phone or around the room. They rarely seem to absorb details and quickly change the subject. They seem bored or annoyed when I talk.

4. Has your crush initiated physical contact with you (a light touch on the arm, high five, etc.)?

Yes, they frequently seek casual touch. Once or twice, but it was accidental or brief. No, they maintain a clear physical distance. No, and they recoil if I accidentally touch them.

5. How does your crush react when you compliment them?

They smile genuinely, return a compliment, or look flustered/blush. They say thank you but don’t show much emotion. They seem confused or dismiss the compliment quickly. They don’t react at all or seem uncomfortable.

6. Who initiates communication (texts, DMs, calls) most often?

My crush initiates more often than I do. It’s about 50/50, or they respond quickly when I start it. I initiate almost every conversation. I initiate, and they take a long time to respond (or don’t at all).

7. When you text or message, how detailed and engaged are their responses?

Responses are long, detailed, and ask me further questions. Responses are polite but often end the current topic. They mostly reply with one-word answers (e.g., ‘K,’ ‘lol,’ ‘yeah’). They leave my messages on read frequently.

8. Does your crush seem to remember small, personal details you mentioned previously?

Yes, they bring up things I mentioned days or weeks ago. Only major details, like hobbies or big plans. No, they usually forget what I told them immediately. No, they seem confused when I reference previous conversations.

9. Has your crush ever expressed curiosity about your romantic life or feelings?

Yes, they have hinted at or directly asked about my dating status. They mentioned dating generally, but not specifically about me. No, they avoid the topic completely. They often talk about their own dating life with me.

10. Have they introduced you to their close friends or family?

Yes, they proudly introduced me to their important people. Yes, but only in passing or a casual group setting. No, they seem to keep me separate from their inner circle. No, and they actively avoid situations where we might meet them.

11. Has your crush initiated hanging out or meeting up one-on-one recently?

Yes, they frequently suggest plans just for the two of us. They agree easily when I suggest plans, but don’t initiate. No, we only hang out in group settings. No, and they often cancel or flake on plans.

12. Do they make an effort to be helpful, supportive, or offer assistance to you specifically?

Yes, they go out of their way to assist or offer favors. They are helpful, but only if it’s convenient for them. No, their actions are generally focused on their own needs. No, and they ignore me when I need assistance.

13. Does your crush seem to prioritize spending time with you over other social commitments?

Yes, they adjust their schedule to fit me in easily. They fit me in, but only if their primary plans fall through. No, I always feel like a secondary option in their plans. No, they rarely have time for me.

14. Does your crush ever playfully tease you or joke with you in a flirtatious way?

Yes, our jokes often have a noticeable flirty, personal undertone. Yes, they joke with everyone in the group equally. No, our interactions are strictly formal or friendly. No, they ignore my attempts at humor.

15. Have they ever defended you or shown strong loyalty to you in a public setting?

Yes, they frequently stand up for me without hesitation. Yes, but only in very minor disagreements. No, they usually stay neutral in conflicts. No, they sometimes side against me or stay quiet when I need support.

16. How often does your crush engage with your social media content (liking, commenting, reacting to stories)?

They engage with most of my posts/stories very quickly. They sometimes like posts, but rarely comment. Almost never, or they follow me but don’t interact. They don’t follow me or have me blocked.

17. Have they ever hinted at wanting to do something specific with you in the future?

Yes, they suggest future dates or events clearly. They mention group activities that might include me. No, our interactions are strictly about the present. No, and they plan activities only with other people.

18. When you are together, do they introduce you as a “friend” or a more ambiguous term?

They use a more familiar or intimate term (or just my name with a specific tone). They introduce me clearly as a “friend” or colleague. They are vague and don’t introduce me clearly to others. They avoid introducing me at all.

19. Do they make an effort to look good specifically when they know they will see you?

Yes, they are noticeably well-dressed or groomed when we meet. They always look nice, so it’s hard to tell. No, they are casual and do not seem to prioritize appearance for me. They sometimes look disheveled or rushed when they see me.

20. Does your gut feeling suggest they are interested in more than friendship?

Yes, I feel a clear, mutual romantic tension. Maybe, but I’m worried I might be misinterpreting things. No, I feel like they only see me as a friend. No, my gut suggests they are completely unavailable or uninterested.

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