Do You Know Your Relationship Red Flags? Do You Know Your Relationship Red Flags? 20 clear questions, spot warning signs before they become patterns. 1. Does your partner often dismiss your feelings as ‘dramatic’ or ‘overreacting’? Yes, frequently Sometimes, in certain moments No, they take feelings seriously 2. Do they frequently break promises or cancel plans without good reason? Often, it’s a pattern Occasionally Rarely, they keep commitments 3. When you disagree, do they try to control the outcome or conversation? Yes, they dominate Sometimes, power shows up No, we negotiate fairly 4. Do they check your phone, messages, or social accounts without consent? Yes, without permission They’ve done it once or twice No, they respect privacy 5. Do you feel pressured to change parts of yourself to keep them happy? Yes, often pressured Sometimes, subtle pressure No, they accept me as I am Next 6. How do they react when you set a clear boundary? They ignore or push past it They argue about it They respect it 7. Do they use guilt or emotional withdrawal to get their way? Yes, it’s common Sometimes, in fights No, they communicate directly 8. Do they belittle or mock you in front of others? Yes, more than once Once or twice Never, they protect my dignity 9. Do you feel a pattern of one-sided emotional labor (you always support, they rarely reciprocate)? Yes, I do most of the work Sometimes, it’s uneven No, we share emotional work 10. Have you noticed them isolating you from friends or family (subtle or obvious)? Yes, I see isolation signs A little, scheduling changes No, my relationships are intact Back Next 11. Do they take responsibility when they hurt you, or deflect/blame? They deflect/blame Sometimes they take responsibility They apologize and change 12. Are you worried about their temper or sudden anger outbursts? Yes, frequently worry Occasionally No, they stay calm 13. Do they dismiss your accomplishments or show envy when you succeed? Yes, they minimize me Sometimes, mixed reactions No, they celebrate me 14. Do they pressure you about intimacy, sex, or affection when you say no? Yes, they pressure me Sometimes, they push boundaries No, they respect consent 15. Do their explanations for concerning behavior feel sincere or rehearsed? Often rehearsed or suspicious Sometimes unclear Usually honest and open Back Next 16. Do they respect your goals and support your independence? No, they undermine independence Somewhat, mixed support Yes, they encourage me 17. Have you noticed a cycle of hurt, apology, and return to the same harmful behavior? Yes, the cycle repeats Sometimes, occasional patterns No, we break the cycle 18. Do they respect boundaries you set around friends, family, or work? They frequently disrespect them Sometimes cross lines Yes, they honor them 19. Do you feel safe emotionally and physically in this relationship? No, I don’t feel safe Sometimes, mixed safety Yes, I feel secure 20. If you were honest with a friend, would they notice concerning patterns you’re overlooking? Yes, friends have warned me Maybe, they’ve hinted No, friends would say it looks healthy Back Finish Related Posts How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind Anna Welch October 27, 2025 No Comments Read More Can A Man Love Two Women Anna Welch October 23, 2025 No Comments Read More Can You Love Someone And Not Trust Them Anna Welch October 19, 2025 No Comments Read More
