Are You Falling in Love With the Wrong Person? Are You Falling in Love With the Wrong Person? 20 revealing questions, be honest and find out what your heart is really doing. 1. Does this person treat you differently in private vs. public? Yes, very different Sometimes, a little off No, consistent everywhere 2. Do you feel anxious around them more than excited? Mostly anxious Mixed, depends on the day Mostly excited and calm 3. Have friends or family raised concerns about them? Yes, multiple times A few mentions, not strong No, they like them 4. Does their behavior shift when you set a boundary? They push back or guilt me They struggle but sometimes respect it They accept and respect my limits 5. Do you ignore red flags because of strong chemistry? Yes, chemistry blinds me Sometimes, I debate it in my head No, I notice them and address them Next 6. Do they regularly cancel plans or arrive late without apology? Yes, repeatedly Occasionally Rarely, they respect my time 7. Are you the one making most emotional effort? Yes, always me Some balance but mostly me No, efforts are fairly equal 8. Do they pressure you to move faster than you’re comfortable with? Yes, they rush things A bit, but I push back No, they respect my pace 9. Do they make you doubt your instincts or memory (gaslighting)? Often, I second-guess myself Sometimes, small moments Never, I trust my perceptions 10. Are their goals and values wildly different from yours? Yes, very different Some differences that matter Mostly aligned Back Next 11. Do they encourage unhealthy habits or risky choices? Yes, often Sometimes, in certain situations No, they encourage health and safety 12. Do you hide parts of yourself to avoid arguments or judgment? Yes, I censor myself a lot Sometimes, small things No, I can be authentic 13. Are apologies followed by change, or repeated patterns? Repeat patterns, no real change Some attempts at change Yes, apologies come with improvement 14. Do you feel isolated from friends/family since you met them? Yes, I see people less now A little, scheduling changes No, my support network is intact 15. Does their interest spike only when they need something? Yes, I notice patterns of use Sometimes, occasional pattern No, they’re consistently present Back Next 16. Do they respect your finances and financial boundaries? No, they disrespect money boundaries Sometimes, a few concerns Yes, they respect financial limits 17. Do they apologize when they hurt you, without blame-shifting? Rarely, they avoid responsibility Occasionally sincere Yes, sincere apologies happen 18. Do you often make excuses for their bad behaviour? Yes, I rationalize it a lot Sometimes, when strong feelings are involved No, I call it out honestly 19. Do they support your independence and decisions? No, they try to control choices Sometimes, inconsistent support Yes, they back my independence 20. Deep down, do you feel this relationship helps you become a better person? No, I feel worse or stuck Mixed, some growth, some harm Yes, I grow and feel supported Back Finish Related Posts How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind Anna Welch October 27, 2025 No Comments Read More Can A Man Love Two Women Anna Welch October 23, 2025 No Comments Read More Can You Love Someone And Not Trust Them Anna Welch October 19, 2025 No Comments Read More
